We’re busy living someone else’s life. Though it seems everything we do for ourselves but it isn’t. You may wonder how does it even possible! Right? Let’s start with a story

So a friend of mine was telling me a few days back then that he and his girlfriend had a fight.
And they Are about to break up.

So I asked what was the reason.
Then he told me, his girlfriend doesn’t reply to his call likewise before,
she seems to keep busy all the time.
So I asked him did he actually try to talk to her!
He was like what do mean.
Then I told him,
Instead of bossing up yourself thinking about her.
In the first place, You should talk to her precisely.
Tell her, you need to talk, to know what's all this about!

What if she's having a hard time! or Maybe she's suffering from something serious. But never told you cause you never asked her but complaining.

Worrying only makes things worse.
We waste our time and energy thinking about people why, how and what they are DOING.
Sometimes we worry about less complicated Things which utterly has an impact to destroy something meaningful from our life.
We never realize how little things get bigger.
It's important that instead of thinking about what people are doing we should make a real talk.
And hear their side of the story.

As you know every story has two sides don't just think you're the one who is getting fucked.
How about the other one?

Everyone has their privacy and boundaries. And you have to respect that whether he/she's your girlfriend/boyfriend or any acquaintances you know.

People just can't put everything in words sometimes you've gotta just look into their hearts. That's what makes a person total human.

Why though busy living someone else's life in our thoughts.
The ability to think is what makes us unique from other species on this planet or probably the whole universe.
Let's not just destroy ourselves for this same reason.
Live a life that is full of yours.